If You Don’t Use It, You Lose It.

There are some common phrases that I’ve heard in regards to pursuing a life of chastity. Some of them being:  “What if I’ve already had a past and made mistakes can I even pursue a life of chastity?”  “What if I mess up does that mean I have to start all over?” Let me start…

I Need Help

Have you ever said this out loud to another person? Have you ever looked at someone in the eye and said, “ I need help.” I’m not talking about those times we need someone to help carry groceries or open the door, I’m talking about those times when we are face to face with the…

You Are Loved

Have you ever felt like your life really doesn’t matter? Like it’s just a mindless maze? What’s the purpose to any of it anyway? This may very well be the way you feel or have felt at some point in your life. I too have felt lost. I too have felt like I wasn’t going…

Chastity: A Life of Fun & Love

What is your favorite thing about practicing chastity? I want to preface that practicing chastity is not the easiest thing to do. It’s easy to fall out of the virtues that we desire to live out. The life of chastity is not for the faint of heart; it’s actually for the courageous. It’s a life…

Committed to Being Noncommittal

Imagine this: You’ve just met someone incredible. Slowly, you grow closer; you text, tag each other in memes, and hang out all the time. Things seem to be going pretty well until one day you are hit with this line: “Hey, this is great and all, but I’m not looking to commit to anything right…

A Fast for Love

Want to grow in chastity? Try fasting. I remember the summer I decided to take on fasting for some friends and family to feel more connected to them. I set it in my phone’s calendar so I would remember. I asked the people I love how could I pray for them and in turn I…

Why Am I So Replaceable?!?

Why am I so Replaceable??? How to take control over negative self-talk. Why am I so replaceable? Ever had a similar negative thought cross your mind? This question flooded my mind after hearing my ex-boyfriend had a new girlfriend soon after our two year relationship ended. Talk about prime opportunity for the enemy to attack…

Fighting for Fatherhood

“How do you wanna live? As a decent person? Good husband? Is that it? Good? Of course not. King of the hill? Better. Top of your game? Win. All-powerful. Like a boss. Like a pro.” “GMC wonders how you want to live your life. It challenges the idea of simply being a decent person or…