Someone Love Me! Is It Wrong To Want To Be Noticed Or Loved?

What is your deepest desire? You might think it’s being rich or to be a celebrity, to live at the beach or travel the world. These are not bad things to desire, but a little deeper in every human heart is a desire to be loved. And at times, we don’t get the love we…

Why Won’t He Just Listen?

Have you ever found yourself sharing your problems with a guy and leave more frustrated than before? I certainly have. You start venting a problem to a guy and before you can finish the story he has made a five point plan on how to fix your problem. Girl I don’t know about you, but…

The Proper Response to Attraction

Have you ever found yourself in the presence of someone else and felt inexplicably drawn towards them? Maybe everything stopped. Your heart. Time. Reason. Cue the slow motion, music, and feels… and welcome to the experience of attraction! If you’ve ever wondered what to do with the feelings that arise in this experience, it’s your…

“They’re just not my type.”

How many times have we heard ourselves or our friends say something along these lines when going on a first date or even finding out someone is interested in them? I know I have!  Now don’t get me wrong, compatibility and attraction are a huge part of dating someone, but recently, I’ve been realizing that not…

I like her but how do I tell her?

One of the best feelings in the world is to fall for another person—this is an objective truth, there’s almost no room to dispute this. Whether it’s her smile, or her laugh, or her personality, or the virtue she radiates, the truth is that you’re smitten! She’s wonderful and you want to tell her how…

Thank You, Next… But How?

The moment has arrived; it’s time to break up. Regardless of how long you’ve been dating someone, ending a relationship can be difficult. Saying, “Adios!” to your current boo can be a source of distress and cause a variety of escape options to develop.  Maybe you’re planning to break up over text to avoid the…

It’s time to throw away the old tape.

There is this habit I got into numerous years ago. It goes a little something like this: a tragic event will occur in my life, I internalize the negative emotions and I sear them to my identity. All of the sudden the same old tape is playing. With a bit of static and white noise,…

No Examination, No virtue

How have I loved today? Imagine if this question was the last thing you pondered each and every day. Personally, I am so far from that. My day usually ends with turning the lights off and hopping on my phone or totally ignoring the last 16 hours that I spent awake by going straight to…